Happiness

Just feel like sharing somethings which i am going through


Last 1 year of my life has been an amazing journey for me which made me realize what is life all about . ofcourse this journey involved lots of painful moments but the lessons which came out of it is worth the pain.

Looking back an year go,I was sad most of time because either someone said bad about me or some one did not talk to me properly or i did not get what i wanted to eat or i feel im not worthy beacuse i scored low marks and the list goes on. How many reasons we find just to make ourselfs sad and unhappy? We have 1000 reasons to be happy about and we pick one reason to be unhappy and crib over it for rest of the day....strange isnt it...

Most of the time, people "choose" the things to be happy out. For some people its their physical beauty, for some its their intelligence and knowledge,for some its their self importance,for some its their power,prestige and success,for some its their innocence,for some its their wealth,for some its their ideals and the list goes on.
Happiness is always there evrywer but we have a strange habbit of experiencing that happiness only when an self imposed conditions manifest itself(like winning a jackpot).
People feel they are not worth something unless one of the thing they feel "which makes a person" is attained by them.
Most commonly success,wealth,knowledge,power and beauty.

Its the same people who look down other people who lacks those qualities.
For example,someone who is rich(not all cases) tend to look down poor people which inturn makes the poor people feel themselves as unworthy beings and feeling "crap" about themselfs and they may work all the way up or resort to unlwful ways to make quick money and when they actually become rich,they feel happy about it and one of the condition for "being happy" is satisfied which is "feeling of satisfaction,worthiness and self confidence" and this cycle as continues from ages.

A child when it begins to understand the world "is made" to think that being intelligent,succesful and wealthy is wat life is all about and if u achieve this ur something otherwise ur fit and deemed to be dead and be called useless citizen.
A unfortunate child which may have a bad memory or reasoning abilities is labeled "stupid" or "dumb" by his parents,teachers,peers and rest of the world which totally destorys his self confidence and is enough to put him to depression,isolation,suicided and so on.
They are taught to "compete" with their peers which often is called "healthy competation" which only leads to hatredness and differnces at the end. Winner is honoured and looser is boo'ed.

It doesnt means that we should nevr aim for success or wealth or strive to attain the knowledge.It just means dont use it as a standards to judge a worthiness of a person for everyone is the same no matter what. This things should be used to make our life better not to fight with each other

People just find reasons to think that they are "superior" or "better" than others. ,be it their good natured ness,be it their knowledge ,be it their job,be it their skin colours and the list goes on.

Out intellect is given to us so that we can understand things better and have a more comfort life. Not to put one another down and destroy each other with weapons.
All this boils down to " No matter how much intellectually superior we are as a human species,If we dont love one another we will be destryoing each other with hatredness and weapons"

wat we should be realizing is we are worth no matter what we are ,how we look and we have have or dont have..
Try to love a person no matter what and this world will be a beautiful place to live in.If a person is mean to you or hates you just get away from there rather trying to hurt that person back.DOnt try to get back at a person who has hurt you.Thats the worst thing.ull end up in a cycle unless someone ends it.Its just not worth it .just forgive and move on.People call it weakness,cowardness when you dont fight back and u might win in that fight and ull be happy about it .but that happiness is not worth it.Its not happiness at all.Its just a feeling of revenge.
People will make mistakes, everyone will..give them time to learn. we expect to be forgiven but we nevr forgive.
Sometimes u fall out of relationships,sometimes u loose a friend and these things are meant to happen. Dont be sad about it. Let it go. The sooner you accept the truth better it is. The more you deny certain things, the more it will dance in front of u .
Try to be happy no matter what. Help a person if possible. dont look poor as poor,dont look rich as rich,dont look boy as a boy,dont look girl as a girl,dont look good person as good and dont look bad persons as bad..just look them as human beings and who desrve ur love.
sorry for the spelling mistake..im to lazy to be careful :-)